You're allowed to be picky!
Updated: Oct 23, 2020
Who will spend the rest of their life with Mr.Right? Not your grandma, not your best friend, and not your coworker. YOU will! You might have been told that you're too picky about choosing the right one for you. And that's a great thing because you are the one who will be living with them for the rest of your life!
Of course you should absolutely reduce your list of requirements if it's too long or too superficial. Of course you should be open to dating people who are not your type as you can be pleasantly surprised. If multiple people are telling you that there is a major issue with your current partner, then absolutely look into the issue and see if infatuation hasn't clouded your true perspective about this person.
Nevertheless, if there is something about the person that you feel you really can't live with and other people are telling you that you're too picky, then follow your intuition since you deserve to be with someone that is the best fit for you-not your friends!
Annie Chana Newman